Update IVF* parameters in NearestNeighbors to match cuvs #7123

The algo_params defaults in NearestNeighbors for IVFPQ and IVFFlat don't match the defaults in cuvs. Further, there are several parameters in cuvs that aren't exposed for these algorithms.

We should update algo_params for these algorithms to:

• Deprecate old names in favor of names that match cuvs
• Update the defaults to match the cuvs defaults
• Expand the parameter list to cover all relevant/useful parameters for these algorithms in cuvs